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Telling children to "Stop Acting like a girl/boy" is a form of shaming Jul 07, 2025

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Want curious, confident kids? Avoid this phrase Jul 03, 2025

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What kids really hear when we say, “Be a big kid" Jul 01, 2025

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Today’s phrase: Boys do cry, and they should. Jun 30, 2025

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Say this/Not that: Let’s rethink “ladylike.” Jun 26, 2025

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What's Happening Wednesdays: AI learning is mandatory in China Jun 25, 2025

What's Happening Wednesday News: AI learning has become an o...

Why We Don’t Say “Man Up” / “Be a Man” Jun 24, 2025

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What we really teach kids when we say “You’re too sensitive” Jun 23, 2025

This series was designed to help kids build strong self-wort...

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